Showing posts with label community. Show all posts
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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

The Theological Roots of Reform Judaism’s Woes


I thought that it brought up a fundamental issue with the broader idea's inherent in liberal, multiculturalistic philosophies in general i.e. to stand for 'everything' is to stand for nothing.' For me personally that idea was always troubling and it lead me down the path of a more fundamentalistic thinking. I used to think that fundamentalism was inherently bad, now I see things differently, fundamentalism is wrong only when it causes people to become hateful and bigoted towards those who are not identical to them, but adhering to more conservative ideology as Mr. Kaplan points out below can be a source for real comfort and can form stronger more tightly knit communities. In any event, food for thought. 

Enjoy

The root of the problem facing liberal Judaism is theological. The pluralistic theologies of Reform Judaism make it difficult to reach consensus on what we Reform Jews believe on any given issue. The liberal approach to observance makes it impossible to set and maintain high expectations in terms of communal participation… As members focus on what they want rather than what they can contribute, it becomes increasingly difficult to build committed religious communities…The sociologist Rodney Stark has popularized the thesis that religious groups need a strict theology in order to make serious demands on their adherents and that these demands, in turn, make a religion more compelling.

Since a liberal theology leads to an emphasis on the autonomy of the individual, personal choice is inevitably promoted at the expense of the authority of God. In the absence of a strong theological basis for making religious demands, the members lose interest and wander off.

One might think that most people would prefer a congregation that allows each member to find his or her own comfort level rather than one that requires all sorts of obligations, theological as well as ritualistic. That is not necessarily true.

Yes, many potential members are deterred by high upfront demands. But for those who join, the commitment is much greater. Since most of the members in a demanding congregation are deeply committed and religiously active, the collective religious experience is much more fulfilling.

As the Reform movement has increasingly emphasized religious autonomy and the importance of choosing what each person finds spiritually meaningful, it has become impossible to compel members to come to services regularly, study Torah seriously and contribute to the vibrant well-being of their congregation.

R. Dana Evan Kaplan

Friday, June 25, 2010

A Common Purpose

Being Jewish is like totally awesome, know what I mean? Maybe not so let me try to explain.

Being an observant Jew can be really hard, it forces you to change everything about your life if you grew up secular like I did. It forces you to make all these changes and sacrifices but out of those restricts and rules, there comes such beauty. Case in point, last night I had an observant friend stay the night. He had an appointment downtown and this cut an hour off his commute so no problem right? That’s just what friends do for one another. But it doesn’t end there behind that is this whole other thing, this guy is a future doctor and I live right next to a hospital that he’s going to be interning in at soon. When my girlfriend heard about this, her first reaction was to him was so of course you can come over when you’re working and use the kitchen. The fact that we are all bound together with a common purpose and common set of ideals and ideas is what creates that connection so powerfully. If not for my kitchen, he’d have to pack lunches, eat cold food, etc. But with my kitchen he can just come over and have food, with no restrictions. Being observant means opening up your home to people from all over, because they need a kosher food stop, or because it Shabbat and they’ve traveled a long way and need a place, whatever the reason, it binds us all together.

I love that this brings me and an acquaintance closer together it makes us closer friends it forces us to get to know one another, it makes me stretch myself constantly. Another example; at the beginning of this week I got sick and everyone knew why? Because there was a wedding and I didn’t go. There are always public events going on and everyone always congregates and when you become part of that web people notice stuff a lot easier and they check up on you and ask if you need anything and go out of their way for you because if you have to go to the hospital then you’ll need food, we’ll keep you in our thoughts when we pray… I hope I’m conveying the frenetic nature of it all, because it’s so vibrate, so alive all the time.

Sometimes I hear from my non-observant friends and family and from them I always hear about the hardships I must endure or the rules I must follow and what a bore it must be and what cant things be simpler, etc and I understand that because I once felt that way to, but now? I can’t imagine my life without it. Can’t imagine my life without Shabbat without a time when no matter what I’m doing I take a break I put it out of my mind and just relax, eat food with friends, take a nap in the middle of the day because worrying is for tomorrow, thinking about all the work I have to do is for the next day and I can deal with it then.

There is such freedom and such love within all the rules and restrictions it binds Am Israel together as a nation, it’s beautiful and I love it and I could never imagine going back.

Shabbat Shalom